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Perfection – Everything happens for a reason…..

Everything happens for reason…….

Perfection

Good morning my friends! I hope you that are doing as great as I am today. Well, now you are probably asking yourself, what has happened to me so that I feel so great. Did I get a great new job? Did I fall in love? Did I win the lottery? …..hmmmm. The truth is, that absolutely nothing is happening. Ok…and that’s good?

First, I’ll tell you what I would have done one year ago before my illness. I would have panicked and tried to find something to worry about. I would have gone crazy thinking about the fact that I don’t have a job and the fact that my finances are diminishing and that the man I feel in love with, turned out to be just the opposite of what I thought. I would have been devastated and unhappy. But today, I sit here quietly, patiently and truly determined that everything is exactly the way it is supposed to be. How is this even possible? Yes, I’ve learned to let go and let GOD (or the universe or whatever you want to call it :D)

This is a major transformation for me and you know what? It works. I’ve learned to accept the situation that I’m going thru right now and believe with all my heart, that it is exactly the place where I need to be. I used to live in what I called UNCERTAINTY. That means not being sure what was coming, but also not believing that everything was the way it should be. Kind of like hoping for something better, but not believing something great would happen.

Now I am living in CERTAINTY. These changes have taken place over the last 6 weeks after everything in my life seemed to fall apart yet again. I could have said “didn’t I have enough”, but no!!! I refused to see myself as a victim of life. Instead, I have realize one thing and this is that we all have at some point difficulties with this word called PATIENCE. Sometimes we have very little of it. We all seem to want everything as fast as possible, even if in the end, we know what great changes needs TIME.

So, I am sitting here with a smile on my face, sharing my thoughts with you and hoping that you can realize too, that everything happens for a reason. Everything is perfect, just like our bodies and this universe. Everything works in total perfection and this is the way our lives work too. So, even if we can’t see the connection and the “why” of it all at this time, my friends, and you too are going thru some bad times at the moment, know for sure that there is one.

I can guarantee you, that when you let go and let life make its way and truly believe that there a lesson to be learned, everything begins to get easier and you will be filled an inner peace that will fill your very existence. And that alone is truly comforting.

Thanks for reading!

Big hug.

Daisy

Acceptance is the key

How do I go on when life gets really hard?

The first step is acceptance…I know this may sound hard. And it is. But if you can come to the point, where you truly believe that everything happens for a reason, you are on the right track. Yes, it easier said than done. But it is possible. It is in the moment, when you realize that the only thing that is really, really sure, is change. Everything always changes, nothing ever stays the same. You have to truly believe with all your heart, that you deserve something better. Sometimes we cling to the old because it’s comfortable and because we are afraid of change. Believe me I can speak from experience. But I can guarantee, that if you start taking care of you’re own needs rather than waiting for a man or anyone to do this, then things will change. When you realize that you have to love yourself before anyone can love you back. When you follow your bliss and do things that make you smile. Whatever that may be. When you are kind and loving to yourself and realize that you are the most important person on this planet. Forget about the past for its is done. You did your best. Everybody did the best that they could at that given moment. Forget about the future because life comes like it comes. Ask most people who plan things. Accept this moment, even if its painful and know deep in your heart, that it will get better in the moment you let go and let happen.